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grief triggers

Grief Triggers and Positive Memory: A Continuum

Central New York, where I grew up, overachieves when it comes to cold weather seasons. I won’t even get started…
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Grief, Emotion, & Major Life Decision

Grief, Emotion, & Major Life Decisions

I should start out by saying this post is not about some disastrous decision I made while grieving, so don’t…
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Dear Daughter: Mourning Lost Memories

Dear Daughter: Mourning Lost Memories

Dear Daughter, You will be 5 in a few short days. You’re starting preschool, you’re learning your letters, you can…
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A 'Driveway Moment' for Grievers feat David Sedaris

A 'Driveway Moment' for Grievers feat. David Sedaris

I had an NPR driveway moment on Sunday. No surprise, I was listening to This American Life (with Ira Glass,…
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The Right to Make Choices: In Living and in Dying

The Right to Make Choices: In Living and in Dying

My little brother is leaving for South Sudan this afternoon. Those of you who pay attention to the news know…
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The 9/11 Memorial: In Remembrance

9/11 is my flashbulb memory. I remember exactly where I was sitting when the first plane hit the World Trade…
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deathbed tweeting

Deathbed Tweeting Makes Me Uncomfortable, And That's Okay

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  • Litsa Williams
So Monday Eleanor sends me this text: Did you hear about this guy tweeting from his mother's death bed? I…
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the first wedding after a death

The First Wedding After a Death: My Little Sister Got Hitched

It's not every day your littlest sister gets married, no siree. Marrying off the youngest of six children is a…
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in loving memory; grief tattoos

Grief and Tattoos

We have been thinking a lot about grief and tattoos lately, though neither Eleanor nor I actually have grief tattoos.…
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